By Alice Askins, Education Coordinator at Rose Hill
At the end of December 1843 Herman
Foster became engaged to Pauline Lentilhon.
Pauline may have been related to the Smiths who appear so often in
Herman’s diary. We first hear of Pauline
when Augustus Smith was reading a letter from her in the cutter that spills
Herman, Augustus, and William into a snow bank.
After they were engaged, Pauline wrote to Herman frequently. He probably wrote back, but he does not
mention that in his diary. In April 1844,
Pauline came to stay with the Smiths, escorted by Charles Owen of the farm
where Herman learned his profession. I
don’t know how it came about that Charles assisted Pauline on her journey; if
he happened to be in her home city of New York at the right time, she might
have asked him to escort her as an acquaintance of her future husband. Women seem not to have traveled on their own. As a married man, a Quaker, and a friend of
Herman’s, Charles would have been an eligible protector. Mrs. Smith, probably William and Augustus’s
mother, was staying at the boys’ farm, and her presence would have made it
acceptable for Pauline to stay there. On
Sunday, April 5, Herman wrote “After dinner I rode
over to Canoga and had the pleasure of once more seeing P.”
Every
weekend through the summer he rode over to Canoga. On May 29 he wrote, “Afternoon the Boys, Mrs. Smith and Pauline came over and took tea.” In August, Herman mentioned that he took
Pauline home to Canoga; she must have come to visit, perhaps to see the work on
the farm. During this period Herman
continued to improve the place. He
brought a washing machine over from Geneva, and built an ice house. On September 16, Herman went to Canoga and “helped them get off” – apparently
Pauline and some traveling companion(s) had started back to New York. On September 25, Herman followed. On Thursday October 17 he wrote, “We reached home in the evening.” “We” seems to mean Herman and Pauline, were Snow
married.
Pauline and Herman's washing machine may have been this kind of device. |
Over
the next few days, Herman wrote about unpacking furniture and fixing window
blinds. “Thomas [a hired man?] came over to boys, took back a wad of Pauline's
things.” She must have left them there from her summer visit. Meanwhile, the social niceties were being
observed – “23rd Wednesday.
Great many persons have called on Pauline.
26th Saturday. I went in [to Geneva] and took Pauline – first
time she ever was there. Called on Mrs. Clarke, Mrs. Bogert & Grosvenor.”
By
November, after various references to lead pipes in dirt-filled boxes, and to
forcing pumps, “At last the water runs as
it ought to do – to our great joy.” At the end of the month, the boys brought over
a piano. That must have made the house
really feel like home for Herman, who had to have music. There are two later diary entries that Herman
even brought in a piano tuner.
“December 25th Wednesday.
Christmas day. . . Went to Seneca falls in morning in sleigh. . . Got some ice
and made ice cream. Fired pistols at mark. Had grand supper in evening. . . .
26th Thursday. Fired pistols all
day long, very much to P's chagrin. She fussed in kitchen.
30th Monday. P fussed in kitchen all day, making cake,
etc., in anticipation of New Year.” New Year’s Day was often devoted to visiting.
On
November 4, 1845, “Pauline gave birth to
a fine daughter at 6 minutes past ten P.M.”
This was the first of three children (two daughters and a son). Sadly, Pauline died four and a half years
after she married Herman. Robert Swan of
Rose Hill mentions Herman in his own journal, and says once that he went to
visit Herman because it was his (Herman’s) wedding day. We assume that he needed company on his
anniversary. He never remarry. After an accident with a 500-pound block of
ice Herman himself died in 1869. His leg
was broken and a large blood clot was found in his windpipe and another in a
lung after he died.
Ice Cutting. You can see why you would not want a block of ice to fall on your leg. |
The
Geneva Gazette said “Mr. Foster was a positive man – there was
nothing negative in his character.” A former president of the New York State
Agricultural Society, A. B. Conger, noted that Herman won farming awards from
the county and state societies, and established and ran a Sunday School for the
poorer families in his area. His diaries
give us a strong impression of a lively man with a sense of humor. I tend
to forget his social position, but one of his daughters married Henry Algernon
DuPont and lived at Winterthur in Delaware.
That is why Winterthur owns his diaries, and again we are indebted to
them for sending us the transcripts.